[mock-possum]

Growing up Methodist, we learned it via church camp singalong:

A church is not a building

A church is not a steeple

A church is not a resting place

A church is a people

I am the church

You are the church

We are the church together

All who follow Jesus

All around the world

Yes were the church to-clap!-gether.

I don’t believe in any of it anymore, but it’s still a nice sentiment - the only thing I really miss about Christianity is the community.

[dingnuts]

same -- maybe you should look into the Quakers, they're basically a denomination that is only community and sans doctrine, is my understanding. I only haven't followed this advice for bad reasons