Code review, respect from engineers, directly feeling the pain points in our development process, I can commit small features strategically (like if a partner team isn't getting a lot of love but we're under-resourced), better partner pairing with engineers, balancing tech debt with new features, shipping directly to users builds empathy
[0] https://charity.wtf/2017/05/11/the-engineer-manager-pendulum...
[1] https://charity.wtf/2019/01/04/engineering-management-the-pe...