1. Will guarantee it will do it again, guaranteeing more war.
2. Will motivate more countries to get nuclear weapons, raising the chances of a nuclear war.
Is this serious?. I think you got things mixed up a bit here I think you meant to say the opposite.
The better comparison would be, would I rather have me, my kids and everyone I love die in a ball of fire or disease/hunger as society crumbles around us or risk the end of democracy and inviting authoritarianism?. I personally would always risk dictatorship, you can fight against dictators but not against death.
1. Will guarantee it will do it again, guaranteeing more war. 2. Will motivate more countries to get nuclear weapons, raising the chances of a nuclear war.