[dkersten]

htop over top, tmux over screen, zsh over bash, and postgres over mysql

That doesn't seem like a good comparison to me. I use htop over top because it has features that top doesn't have (the funky coloured ASCII graphs). I use tmux over screen because unicode seems to work without any effort on my part. I use bash because I have never looked at zsh in detail and don't care enough. I use postgres because I like its license better than mysql and its not controlled by any one company.

So its not at all about the perception that one is significantly better than the other, at least for me, its about specific features (license is a feature). Or in the case of zsh vs bash, where there are no specific features, I use bash because it seems to be the default on most distros.