[sincerecook]

Yes, traditionally women would engage in passive aggressive slights and backhanded compliments more than men would, who would more likely engage in a physical fight. That is a pattern based on historical reality and observed and acknowledged the world over. Your attempt to make it a pathology to recognize and affirm the observation is itself a pathology, a rabid ideological one.

[Gud]

And I would not say it's a 'historical' thing. It's the reality we live in.

Men and women have different survival strategies. YMMV. Not everyone is the same, etc.