[malcolmgreaves]

First, I’m sorry about your health. That sounds like it sucks a lot. I would be angry too. I’d also be afraid and very willing to adopt anything so long as it could convince me it was even marginally helpful.

> It's a generalization that paints men in a negative light, which I took personally.

With compassion, I seriously suggest that you adopt a radically different perspective. OP did not come after you personally. Yet you say that you took it personally. How did you come to that reaction?

It helps to not look at all facts as binary. This leads to a brittle world view as one tries to reduce reality’s complexity into a bits. Social group membership is not like sets and propositional logic. If you’re applying that system of logic to the real world, you’ll derive false things. I look at it like the axioms are verifiably false by observation, thus poisoning the whole system.

I don’t usually wade into deep comment threads, but I want to help here. I see something you said that I used to struggle with myself. And I struggled until someone else helped me.

Good luck with your health.

[rayalez]

Thanks!

Yeah, no good comes from taking things personally, or getting offended at things, or arguing about who's getting treated more unfairly. I'm just not my best self today.