There are differences (e.g., historical expectations and social contracts, as well as technical nuances of selectively not download vs. outright copyright violation and sometimes CFAA violations of unauthorized access), but I think you have a reasonable point.
Surveillance capitalism and adtech really created a mess that's hard to get out of.
I use Freedium to get around it - https://freedium.cfd/https://medium.com/mr-plan-publication/...