[mettamage]

> they mentally don't want more than X active conversations at a time

This is true. My cap was at 50 conversations at the same time. After that, my brain got fried (male here).

[rqtwteye]

My cap was maybe 5. Seems I have less capacity.

[mettamage]

To be fair, I was crazily driven and treated it like a job. Intimacy is crazy important to me

Edit: interesting that I got at least 3 downvotes for that comment. I don't mind, genuinely. It's just interesting. Different world views and all that

[rqtwteye]

People will downvote you for stating a truth they don’t like.