At the risk of sharing what I think to be common knowledge, it's Reduce, Reuse and then Recycle. The order matters and reflects decreasing impact on the overall problem. Recycle is supposed to be the last option. Unfortunately the Reduce and Reuse get little to no emphasis within a capitalist consumption driven society.
You are arguing against no one. The person you initially replied to explaining RRR obviously isn't talking about RRRing bowling balls specifically. They are explaining the significance of and how to interpret the common way it's taught to reduce unnecessary production and consumption.