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i'm trying to interpret in a way that looks favorable but the only way i can read it is "marriage and children are harder and sometimes people fail, therefore they're less valuable." i don't think that's true. optimizing for ease and risklessness seems like a really bad approach to life.

i don't think you need marijuana to reflect on life and societal norms. in fact, a lot of teenagers spend some years doing this. we all have questioning phases where we read a lot of philosophy and argue with adults and wonder whether the way things are is the way things ought to be. most people don't need marijuana to do it, and most people who use it aren't doing so in the pursuit of greater knowledge unconstrained by the defaults we've passed down through the ages.