[Aurornis]

> The forums are still there but not nearly the camaraderie of the early days.

I remember visiting those forums when I was young and feeling like part of a big group of friendly people hanging out online together.

I tried creating a new account recently and it had a very different vibe. Felt like the old guard had been established and the forums I looked at were dominated by a couple of posters who just wanted to talk, but not discuss anything.

Some of the post counts of those people were eye-watering.

[StefanBatory]

> Felt like the old guard had been established and the forums I looked at were dominated by a couple of posters who just wanted to talk, but not discuss anything.

I think this is the case for most places, I'm afraid. I use mainly Discord - there are certainly a lot of servers where I'm purely because I'm talking to people I met there, and I don't even play that game anymore.

There solution is simpler - after time we create private servers or channels for the old guard, but even then the places deteriorate.

It's a thing I don't know how to solve.

[sdwr]

The problem is when the old guard becomes an exclusive clique. Sometimes it's by accident ("I'm happy with the friends I already have"), but usually there's a portion of the inner circle that validate themselves by gatekeeping newcomers.

There has to be an active commitment to include (annoying, tactless, socially-impoverished) newbies, or the snake eats its tail and collapses under its own weight.