[dang]

The question is how to deal with conflicts. Internet threads where people vent at each other is the opposite of what Milner means by "bearing the tensions".

[DiscourseFan]

Fair enough. The whole thing seemed too suspiciously Hegelian for my tastes.

Do you get a notification everytime your handle is mentioned or did you just happen upon the thread?

[dang]

Just happened.

(Btw if the post you mentioned upthread was https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42605251, it got flagged by users. I don't think any moderators saw it. Same for https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42604924.)