| You’re oversimplifying things and making super generalized assumptions. Every individual and situation has its own unique context, which you’ve completely overlooked. >You said convincing skills only come from personal struggles. Convincing actually depends on other factors too, like communication skills, empathy, and understanding the audience’s perspective. Struggles might be part of it, but they’re not the whole story. Not every smart person goes through intense struggles. Some people are naturally skilled and can be convincing without dealing with major internal battles.
And even if we agree that struggle builds convincing skills… what about the people whose struggles impact them negatively instead of helping them grow? >You also said the core of smartness is persistence and willpower. Smartness isn’t just about persistence. It’s multidimensional—creativity, problem-solving, and adaptability play a huge role too. Plus, persistence alone doesn’t guarantee success. Opportunities, environment, and even luck are equally important. >you said young people usually think they’ve tried everything and failed. That’s not fair. Young people have their own way of seeing the world, and their experiences matter, even if they’re limited. Calling them “delusional” dismisses their efforts and doesn’t give their struggles the respect they deserve. |
Stop lying to yourself. First step to smartness.
The rest sounds like self pity.
I’m not trying to kick you while you’re down. Self struggle and deliberate will are the top winning strategies, period. Everyone smart knows this. You, dumbo (lighten up) are outsmarting yourself.
Keep persisting, things will work out and you will evolve. Those who don’t, won’t.