[throwinga10101]

It's like I can't win. If I behave too feminine as a man people give weird looks to me and mockingly refer to me as a woman. A significant portion of the society still does not think men should be very effeminate.

So I am like ok, sure, I don't care much about this gender ideology, but if society does not think I am a man, then I am a woman!

Then people are not happy again. They call me a man who just wants to become a woman.