[prmoustache]

Having said that, you can self host only calendars and contact, this is nowhere as complicated and maintenance intensive as emails. Or use one of the many nextcloud providers available, the free tier is usually enough for that.

[leshenka]

I used to self-host email. I'm not a devops specialist, I'm not an email specialist, and I had to solve issues on a weekly basis.

I ended up moving to Fastmail, too. And if I'm moving email to FM, might as well move calendars.