[rickydroll]

I suggest spending more time reading up on the impact of the birth lottery.

the OP didn't choose to be born to Canadian parents any more than the that a child chose to be born to Tanzanian parents. In either case, the child's life trajectory has been significantly constrained by their parents' social standing, wealth and health.

https://www.technologyreview.com/2018/03/01/144958/if-youre-...

[Gvaskas]

No amount of reading is going to make this possible. It's not chance. It's not a lottery.

The foal doesn't choose to be born to a mare any more than a lamb to a ewe.

[rickydroll]

That's the whole point. You have no agency over who your parents are or who the child is. When there is no ability to choose and no agency, what you get is a matter of luck.