[guard-of-terra]

I fail to understand the step where the other end takes offense. It's almost like underpant gnomes: 1. Big boobs in code. 2. ????? 3. Offended people.

What's that stage?

Big boobs are a fact of everyday life. If for some reason their mention casts such strong emotions, perhaps there are deep problems in the workplace culture. Art lets you expose that. But art is not a source of those hypothetical problems, rather than reactions to it are merely indicators.

I don't say people should be more relaxed. People should get better; It usually involves them getting a little worse first. Force them to reflect. Force them to negotiate peace with their sexuality and their environment.