[JodieBenitez]

I can relate with point number 2 about demographics. I've been involved in organizing and playing at local raves and parties since forever but this year I stopped completely because as I age I don't share that much with the people there. Being in my late 40s while everyone has 20 (or even less !) sucks. Some people will give me the look that I'm out of place and others will just share concerns of their age that are too far from mine. This and the booze/drug thing that is frankly not compatible with an aging body and a dad's responsibilities. So that's it, no more friday nights for me, I'm better off at home. I'm not sad though, change is good and I started shooting a few years ago and the range is now my new meet up. Kids are welcome, so I can both socialize and spend time with them and have fun, it's great.

I'm sure there are other hobbies that would suit you.

[geremiiah]

Age is a big one. But also for me it was a realization that I have different needs and the people I'd meet through my interest in some nerdy hobby were not going to fulfill all of my social needs.