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If you are naturally introverted/ambiverted, then most 'How to Win Friends etc' advice isn't really made with you in mind.

This lady, however, might speak your language: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHUrdELKjDw

There are a lot of quick, easily actionable tips in that conversation, combined with much more long term 'mindset' advice as well.