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> assisted living is something like 5-6k here so you need 1.5m to just cover that without other expenses.

For what it is worth, the average person in the US spends about $7,300 per person over a lifetime on nursing homes. Only 32% spend anything. The 95th percentile is $47,000. The median person spent just a week or so in a nursing home. 5% of the population spend more than 4 years in a nursing home. You seem to have costed 20 years. Possibly I don't understand the nature of 'assisted living'.

Source: https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1700618114

How much to save for the potential eventuality comes down to your risk profile and appetite. I'm always intrigued by those who on one hand have a very risk-hungry investing approach yet also have a very risk-averse outlook on end of life care.

I have a family member who has been in a nursing home for 4 years. I hope they'll last another 4. Essentially, the person was able to trade in their home for this care, and more. I'd say that's a fairly common transaction.