[reaperducer]

SMS and email take too much effort

If writing an e-mail to a friend is too much effort for you, then you're not a friend. You're an acquaintance, at best.

Low effort means low quality. If all you have to offer is low effort content, what makes you think anyone wants to read it?

Be less lazy.

[bluGill]

I'll accept Acquaintance. I still want some connection - we will meet again in person someday. However because they are that low and it will be years I need to put most of my effort into friends.