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I struggle adjusting my tone when responding to comments like this, so just know any snarkiness is purely accidental and colored by many years living in an extremely high cost of living area at a joke of a minimum wage. Living paycheck to paycheck, truly, and I mean truly in that sense where you need to wait for checks to clear before buying groceries occasionally - is extremely common. When you live like this long enough, "big" costs start adding up. That funny sound in your car that you can't afford to get fixed gets worse. Your tooth hurts super bad, but can I afford a $1000 dentist bill? I'll just hope it doesn't get worse. Maybe your kid gets really sick, forcing you to take time off you cannot afford to (not everyone is salaried or has vacation/PTO policies), adding to the strain. You go to credit cards to stretch things out, but of course that has a limit to how far it can go, especially when you're barely treading water. Eventually you will drown, something has to break. What it is varies and will probably largely determine the long-term outcome of the situation. Anyway, all this to say, there have been many times in my life where these nagging, lingering problems that caused significant strain and hardship in my life that I simply could not afford to fix would have been solved immediately with a few thousand dollars, or whatever "trivial" amount you want to put as a value here. $2000 can actually be a lot more than that when you consider interest and paying down a credit card debt. I can think of one very specific time in my life where $500 being loaned to me was the difference between where I am now and being out on the street, and that is not an exaggeration whatsoever. The reason you cannot wrap your mind around it, and why this bothers me, is that comments like this come from people that truly cannot imagine how massive swaths of the united states, and more broadly live day to day - it comes from a position of enormous privilege, even if you may not realize/acknowledge it. To me, I struggle to imagine how this comment I am responding to can be made at all, but I know our life experiences probably differ in a drastic way. |
I am very lucky in that things panned out (relatively, I still deal with residual issues due to living that way for as long as I did, about 15 years) and I was somehow able to finish school due to traits I believe not many people are lucky enough to have. I don't believe at all that many people in this situation are there of their own fault, and I'd die on that hill, but I can only provide my own brief story and some really basic cost of living statistics that are very easy to look up. It's bleak out there.