[giraffe_lady]

But what is an example of this in a game? How would this come up in a way that you'd feel uncomfortable with? I'm just struggling to see concretely what this would look like.

Examples elsewhere in this comment section like eg sexual assault I can easily see how that would both come up in a game and interact with player experience to make them uncomfortable in a way they may not want to have to explain in the middle of a session.

[JamesBarney]

And a better solution for this is to not run campaigns at conventions or public games that have sexual assault.

[stolenmerch]

I'm getting downvoted simply for giving examples, thus proving my point. But if you need a concrete example, I once had a DM include a drag show in-game.

[blackqueeriroh]

Did you know straight men have been doing drag for centuries? It’s called theatre.

[Auracle]

That’s pretty disingenuous. There’s a very big different between theatre and a drag show.

I’m sure the player in question wouldn’t have minded an old timey theater production of all men playing women. Drag shows are pretty modern and I’m sure entirely took them out of the setting, just as if the DM had the bad guys have Uzis and AK-47s.