[mattpallissard]

I'm working on genuinely connecting with people. My wife, my kids, my friends, strangers.

I've always been a "stuff it", sort of guy. Not wanting to bother people with my problems. It turns out sharing the good and bad moments of your life with others not only is liberating, but it's an excellent way of showing others that you trust them. It's not all roses though, I've noticed that it's pretty easy to come across as a negative person when you first start doing this.

Also, I've observed that frequently, when doing the right thing while supporting someone, you can still hurt them immensely. Your perspective and their perspective can be so wildly different that it's almost like two entirely different realities exist. I don't know what to do about this one, but I'm going to be sinking considerable thought into it.

Honestly, when I type that out it seems like this shouldn't be a revelation to me. That these are things that most well adjusted normies "just get', but hey, I'm just a neckbeard. Better late than never. Perhaps I'm not the only one.