[knorker]

> This was the best explanation.

It's the only one you choose to believe.

> I don’t really understand what’s stopping others from suffering through discomfort to get used to it and not see it as discomfort anymore

I wouldn't call it ableist to assume that everybody is just like you. People are different. You wouldn't say "if only everyone suffered through reading this physics book, they'd surely understand the glory of physics, and become physicists".

Or "if only someone would just read my religion's book, then obviously they'd instantly become a devout follower of my particular god?".

It all seems profoundly ignorant, naive, lacking both empathy and theory of mind.