| > I'm not sure what point you are trying to make. I’m not sure why people act coy when a straightforward mirroring of their own comment is presented. “What could this mean?” Maybe the hope is that the other person will bore the audience by explaining the joke? > I don't look up to Freud and psychoanalysis doesn't work for everyone! I don't even necessarily recommend it. Talking about your infant parental relationship as the be-all-end-all looks indistinguishable from that. > > If you check, all the people who have this feeling of philosophical/ontological pessimism have a missing or damaged relationship with the mother in the first year or so. . > I'm not suggesting psychoanalysis specifically. Perhaps for others, CBT or religion or just a change in life circumstances will be enough. Except for people who have “this feeling of philosophical/ontological pessimism”. > > For them, not even Buddhism can help, since even the abstract idea of anything good, even if it requires transcendence, is a joke Which must paint everyone who defends “suffering” in the Vedic sense. Since that was what you were replying to. (Saying that reality is suffering on-the-whole is not the same as “I’m depressed [, and please give me anecdotes about how you overcame it]”.) > > The fact that these philosophies are dependent on the life situation to me is a reason to be a little sceptical of their universality. In my personal experience, in those 30 years of my life, I thought everyone thought the way I did, that reality was painful and a chore and dark and dim. Psychoanalysis helped me realise that other people actually were happy to be alive, and understand why I have not been my entire life. I don’t know how broad your brush is. But believing in the originally Vedic (Schopenhauer was inspired by Eastern religions, maybe Buddhism in particular) concept of “suffering” is not such a fragile intellectual framework that it collapses once you heal from the trauma when your mother scolded you while potty training at a crucial point in your Anal Stage of development. > YMMV = not everyone hates life Besides any point whatever. |
And the Vedic version of suffering is all full of love for reality, not wanting to delete it by smashing a button