Just use Tailscale? I have all my services running in Docker containers using Tailscale or Caddy Tailscale (for automatic https cert) sidecar. A secure private cloud has never been easier.
I’ve never heard of that happening in the U.S. with major ISPs. It’s completely opaque vpn traffic to them. What would the ban be for? With remote work and corporate vpns it’s extremely common to have the same traffic patterns.