[bashzor]

In general, I am a hugely pro-choice. If the kids think they are up for that kind of websites, let them be. The odds that they see something they'd rather not have seen are a thousand to one. Sure, not impossible and there will be plenty of stories, but it's not worth it to censor the internet like this.

Better talk with your children what the dangers are. Tell them how burglars find that you are on holidays and then break in, or how your Facebook images could be abused by that bully to make you look stupid. It'll make them be more careful, and you needn't use securly to block Facebook's photo upload feature. And yeah, you can also take the lead on talking about sex, better to have them hear it from a trusted source first hand. (I appreciated my mom's effort to raise me, let's say, aware of how stuff works.)

Also, asking people to do something rather than demanding or prohibiting, works always better[1]. If you tell your kids they shouldn't do something, they're more likely to experiment but decide it's better not to, than when you prohibit it and they're going to try and find holes. And believe me, try they will, often either finding a way or having someone fix it for them.

Lastly, I know someone who had this kind of block on his pc. Dutch kids, and I guess any, aren't frugal about swear words like "fuck". The kid who had this filter installed couldn't see a significant part of the forum since it blocks the entire page over that word, and he missed parts of discussions and conversations. Then someone tried to be funny and simply put "fuck" in 1pt white text in his signature, almost entirely blocking him from the forum. In the end of course, he found a way around the block. There are always ways.

I know this is your business and you're not going to stop for this kind of personal morals, but I wanted this to be out there. It's certainly nothing personal!

[1] http://lesswrong.com/lw/4e/cached_selves/ 9th paragraph.

[bmadhu]

Your feedback is well taken. A couple of things (1) Based on our experience, we ran into a lot of empirical evidence that parents don't take the lead in talking to their kids about what they might run into on the Internet (2) The pro-choice argument works well for teens who are well aware of whats out there. Our intent is to protect younger children who might be accidentally exposed to adult content before their parents have had a chance to talk to them about it (or are too young to visit these sites even after such a discussion). Incidentally, the trigger for this idea was when my co-founder saw his 6-year old cousin accidentally viewing an age-inappropriate video on YouTube on an iPad while his parents were away. That's when we looked for solutions for "safe YouTube" out there and were surprised to see how sorry the parental "control" solutions out there were.

[gadders]

This is definitely needed. My six year old has a tablet and I dread the day she sees something "rude" on the internet.

[bashzor]

I see; that's indeed a good idea. Perhaps it'd also be an idea to tell parents about the intended age range?

[ja27]

I generally trust my kids and have had the appropriate content talk with both of them several times. But they're kids. My 8 y/o boy will still search for "sexy girls" sometimes. If it would just show him swimsuit models or Playboy-level material, I'd be happy enough. But with any search, he's only a couple clicks away from the some of the most hardcore fetish porn ever created.

I still prefer monitoring / reporting to filtering / blocking though. It's more important for me to know what they're looking at and be able to talk to them about it than it is for me to block everything that might be offensive.

[malr]

I am a teacher and I'm excited about Securly! My observations: I usually visit students in their homes for after-school tutoring. The kids are generally preteens, too young to be exploring uncharted territories on their own, even if the parents had the "talk". In fact, almost all the parents I work with are very concerned about their kids coming across inappropriate content on web through computers and portable devices. They would like to delay this kind of "acquired worldly knowledge" as long as they can. I feel the same way as a parent myself. As to what age is appropriate, it is unique to each child and the family. Keep in mind that the decision making part of the brain does not really mature until late preteen age. All my students have special needs and parents need to be extra cautious. I strongly hope that Securly finds its place in our homes and schools and the parents and schools must start taking proactive measures by thinking about new safeguards to put in place.

[unimpressive]

On the one hand I agree.

On the other hand: http://xkcd.com/751/ makes a very convincing point.[0]

[0]: As a kid who was basically raised on Video Games and Internet forums, this comic isn't even really exaggerated.

PS:

Parents, if you really want to do your kids a favor, let them know right now that the Internet never forgets, and that you should keep this in mind when you say things.