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by A_D_E_P_T 555 days ago
If you can hold out for another 18 months, it'll get much better.

In the meantime, if your means allow it, nannies and au pairs can be a huge help. I'd even advise you to hire a full-timer. (You might even want to consider moving to a country where this is cheaper and more easily possible.) There ought to be no shame in it.