sure, 5 calls may be giving up to early. but 50? if i give up after 40 calls does that mean i haven't been trying hard enough?
You're just proving my point - you had to make 50 calls to reach "any licensed therapist" covered by your insurance.
Why do you think the other 49 weren't in-network? It's because, if they're good, they can make much more out-of-network, direct billing patients.