[samvher]

The first few years out of university I consistently had < $10k on my bank account and was traveling as much as I could, with just occasional part time work to "fill up" a few k$. I loved it and couldn't imagine living any other way, neither retirement nor risks were just really on my mind at all (it wasn't really a zen thing).

Now I have a child and feel completely different. The moment she arrived I immediately felt way behind on retirement savings and stability and since then my #1 priority has been to catch up. I'm hoping that not long from now I'll be able to translate being more secure on paper to also mentally getting back the care free feeling I had before.

[justinrubek]

It is incredible how long these feelings can stick with us. My first few years out of university, I didn't even make $10k total combined. It is taking a long time to come to terms with the fact that I'm doing better now. Behind in life and goals, but doing a bit better.