[obscurette]

I'm in my sixties and can compare my life in seventies with the life of my kids (in late twenties now) and the life of kids nowadays. The obvious difference is that people nowadays don't have to interact with too many different people. They can totally ignore most of the world without any consequences, but this wasn't the case when I grew up. I had the myriad of relatives, cousins etc you had to interact with. In lot of cases this was awkward for me as introverted nerd, but I learned a lot from it. Without this need and practice I can totally see myself being lonely single in later life, not as father of three, grandfather of two, member of several communities etc I am now.