[mportela]

> I saw my mom gradually become a Sandy Hook "truther" as she fell deep down Facebook rabbitholes. It was bad. Although she eventually came around (...)

Mind sharing how she came around? My dad fell a similar hole but I haven't been able to rescue him yet.

[lynndotpy]

She spends almost all of her time on Facebook, and I'm just guessing her feed changed eventually.

I remember her being convinced that the parents weren't reacting like she'd expect a grieving parent to. She was deep in Sandy Hook Truther groups.

I wish I could say it was arguments and logic and reasoning, or the pain being borne by the community around her. But I think she just believes everything she sees on Facebook, and Facebook stopped showing her Sandy Hook Truther stuff.

[CoastalCoder]

I'm not in his camp, but trying to play Devil's Advocate for your benefit:

Are you sure that your arguments are more solid than his?

E.g., are you and he both relying on outside source of information, which neither of you have the time / resources / motivation to verify?

And if so, are you and he just assigning different levels of trust in a given source?

When I've been in situations slightly similar to yours, I was disheartened to realize that my own justifications weren't as solid as I originally thought.

That is, I was still pretty well convinced of my own position, but I realized that the main reason for it was a judgment call and intuition, rather than an unassailable argument.