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by fii 588 days ago
I love this strategy until I run into someone else who’s read it. Then it’s just two people wait()ing each other.
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That's when turn-taking kicks in. A nice conversation might have multiple sections, and the person doing most of the talking can alternate between sections.
Then you turn to a different strategy, selling yourself, or self promotion.

It’s not as volatile as nostalgia, you can always go there too.

I used to network with BNC! (Touches both, quickly.)

Just be curious about the other person and go from there.
Ah yes, conversational deadlock. The best way to release the lock is to say you need to go to the bathroom. Sometimes it just wasn't meant to be.
That is much smarter than my tactic of yelling "pthread_mutex_unlock" out loud and then running away.
You got me there. Were this a social setting, that yell would have triggered my interest sufficiently to chase after you for an extended conversation. Resistance is futexile.