[fhfjfk]

As a fearful anxious man - Don't presume to know what I fear.

I expect variation in the women I meet, some will be scared of me and some have much bigger balls than I do. If I calibrate my banter such that 1% of women are scared, am I in the wrong?

[kazinator]

All that matters is how real is what you fear. Any difference between fear and reality is for shrinks to deal with, not public policy.