[pembrook]

As a fellow tech worker, I genuinely believe all the things I mentioned are upsetting. It's happened to me before!

I realized though that I was probably going to be okay, and what I actually needed was some perspective.

Sometimes the contrast of "sarcasm" is the only way to shake you out of your bubble and give you that perspective.

[VirusNewbie]

Sarcasm is bad. It would have been fine to say "I think there is a social contract of it being acceptable to lay off workers making 400k".

[johnnyanmac]

>I realized though that I was probably going to be okay

I thought so too... that was 13 months ago.

I still am okay, but only by pure blind luck. And okay in a "rice and beans diet" way. The actual interview gauntlets are worse than my first job search.

And yes, luck = preparation x opportunity. But I was literally cold called by a founder. My experience spoke for itself, but it only helped me tread water instead of sink into the abyss. Sure didn't work the other hundreds of times I kept searching.

>Sometimes the contrast of "sarcasm" is the only way to shake you out of your bubble and give you that perspective.

Again, the guidelines

>Be kind. Don't be snarky. Converse curiously; don't cross-examine. Edit out swipes.

Assumptions are horrible on the internet because it only enrages those who do not fit your strawman. I did everything "right" and I end up laid off twice, draining all my savings and a bit of my stock, and being gaslighted for over a year when I could grab multiple offers in 3-4 months the last few job hunts.

I work in games, I'm not making 500k salaries and was well prepared for layoffs. but I was doing very well for myself. So it's tiring hearing people deride my decade of experience with "well maybe you weren't actually a good worker". I'm definitely not a 10x-er, never have been. But it's backwards hat I have more experience now and am desired less for my experience.

It's just bad times. The sooner we can accept that, the easier it'll be to come together and weather the storm. But with layoffs it seems like all the elitism comes out instead.