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by cc101
607 days ago
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We tend to get so buried in what we are doing, it's hard remember what it will feel like when we succeed. My lack of motivation to start a task seems to be because I have forgotten to day-dream a bit about the future benefits of completing the task i.e. what it would feel like to actually finish the task and to enjoy the benefits. Gold Panning Example: I really don't want to go panning for gold. The water is cold. It's hard work. It's windy. It's cloudy. I rarely find much anyway... So, I imagine what it feels like to actually find a 1/4 oz nugget. Wow! What a trip! I did it! I remember what it was like the last time I did it. It was great! Now it's easier to start. So far I have focused on "starting a task." Not continuing it, nor finishing it. I find that once I have finally begun a task, it took so much effort to start that I am very reluctant to stop. When I recognized I had two different problems (not one), things seemed quite a bit easier. I just remember what it will be like when I succeed, and once I am going, I remember that it is easier to continue than to quit. Hope that helps. |
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