[keyle]

This is a very underrated comment. On your death bed looking back this is a strong argument.

Think of it this way with 2 examples...

I'm following a large truck, and being followed by a large truck on the motorway. I'm thinking to myself "there is no good story that starts with 'so, I was following this huge truck closely on the highway...' I get out of the lane, either overtaking or letting them pass.

On the other hand if I get an opportunity to work for a year in Singapore, that's the start of a good story. Let's go.

You only live once is truther for every year passing by.

Regrets hurt more than debts, unless tied of course! Having choices is being rich.