[matrix87]

> but never have this acquaintance seemingly think of me if I’m not directly asking them to hang

I've noticed sometimes in certain relationships it settles into one person usually doing the initiating. every relationship is different. I think it's something to do with how our personalities mesh together

> Maybe most people like to stay in a perpetual state of acquaintance-ness?

Do you actually like them? Are they interesting to talk to?