[satisfice]

What is the problem? That you want someone to think of you? You want invitations to dine?

Be charismatic. (Not really in your control. But sometimes can be blundered into by being interesting based on having a certain expertise or knowledge-base.)

Be useful, then. (Can be achieved by being rich, or offering a service of some kind.)

If people feel safe or listened to or powerful or attractive when they are around you, they will flock in your direction. But be careful what you wish for.