[copperx]

Take a lesson from alcohol (but don't drink).

Disinhibition is a social lubricant. We are so used to being safe because that's what the workplace requires, that we've lost the ability to be disinhibited around closer relationships. People who can be disinhibited and show their flaws are really attractive. But it doesn't come free, some people will reject you more. And that's ok.

[toptrumps]

Alcohol makes people just loud and foolish IMO. I like your point but I think it oversells that drug a bit. Occasionally you can have a good trip on it though.