[tuyiown]

Yes this is why I said a few, and having a legal firm in the loop is probably a good way to improve chances of things going well.

I’m sorry you had to live through that it’s truly horrible.

[silverantlers]

(To be clear, I was trying to elaborate on your point and not disagree with it.)

I wish there were better legal resources for the parents of disabled children to do this in the US. Like the original comment pointed out, the legal expenses of setting up a trust are steep, and if you're already fighting an uphill battle with medical costs it can be impractical. Or even totally out of reach.