[anon291]

> The others all had their kids raised by daycare workers.

I'm not sure this changes when parents are older. all the older parents raising kids I know also send them off to daycare workers.

[geomark]

Then they're doing it wrong. The idea is that you grind when you're young to set yourself up for more free time to spend with your kids when you're older. You can afford for one parent to stay home, both if you've really nailed it