Unnecessary drama is (unfortunately) a time-honored tradition of the open source community. But, e.g., Linus Torvalds’ antics never curtailed the adoption of Linux.
At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is the product.
FOSS dramas we knew from the past were around technical topics mostly where devs have differing views (to system-d or to not to system-d, GNOME file picker, etc) while Godot's drama is anything but technical, but only around the world views and identity politics of the CM.
At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is the product.