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by tbrownaw
632 days ago
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> That's why, for example, I know I'm probably coming off pretty harsh with this and am deliberately doing so anyway You're not coming off as "harsh" at all. You're hiding behind unfounded assertions about me personally in order to avoid providing anything concrete to back up your rather sweeping claims. Relying on ad-hominem attacks isn't harsh, it's what you do when you don't have anything better to support your position. |
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It isn't going to help to say that nothing I've said is in any way critical of you as a person, but it's true. I'm not saying you're a bad person because you don't understand; I'm saying there are some things you need to have lived through or at least very near to understand what makes them matter, and the way you talk about them is the way I typically see people talk who have not done that. That's all.
I still don't understand what I said in the first place that you took so amiss. You came right in swinging from the start [1], and while I'm sure there was a reason, I don't think it has helped for me not to know what that was. Certainly being made to start from the back foot has not.
If it was about how I'd misread the other fellow, that's entirely fair; if so, that I have since apologized without reservation [2] might help get our own conversation closer to an even keel. Outside of that, though, as I said before, I can't imagine what it might have been.
[1] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41689716
[2] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41692004