[illuminant]

Everyone has their "way", find your own. I learned that we should raise our further generations like this:

- the highest goal of child-rearing should be to accomplish a self responsible, capable adult. Preferably of good character and moral virtues, yet let us say these will be signs of our time (collectively influenced.) are you this?

- as an adult, know that the world wants to eat you and shit you. the more beautiful, intelligent, or pationate you are, the greater the lascivious appetites who would feed upon you. Averaging is a safe haven for freedom of will.

- you are both the master of your own destiny, and the tenant/debtor/employee of every external demand you take upon yourself. For some this is liberating, for others a life sentence.

- ultimately to be the fullest of your humanity, be your fullest self. GRIND until you are 30, pace yourself for a decade, and then invest everything in your own infrastructure, and keep it until you die.