[ericmcer]

Those are great but all really family oriented. Sometimes it’s nice to remember they aren’t just dads.

My dad doesn’t usually express much emotion or enthusiasm, but one day he told me about a group trip he had taken at 18 across Europe. He got very animated and enthusiastic describing how he became the coolest guy on the trip. Multiple girls liked him, and the guys wanted to be friends with him. He was never popular in high school but during those 3 months he felt on top of the world.

As he told the story it became apparent to me that this trip was the happiest and most exciting time of his life. I’m sure if you asked him he would name his wedding or our births, but watching him talk about this trip I knew his eyes wouldn’t light up in the same way recalling those events.

Anyway, there is this boundary of sterility between me and my Dad. So he would have never told me: “go travel across Europe while young and get into drunken shenanigans while dating multiple girls.”, directly, but he finally did tell me in a way by sharing his story.

[Bluestein]

You bet. Not only did he tell, he showed you, by virtue of that fire lighting him up.-