[WillAdams]

One memorable instance of this sort of thing from back when I was an EMT in Virginia --- rural mailman noticed that an elderly gentleman hadn't picked up their mail from the previous day, so prevailed upon the folks at the next house to allow him to use their phone to call the County Sheriff's Department --- when the Deputy arrived, it was found that the unfortunate had had the seat in their outhouse collapse, trapping them in it.

[beretguy]

> elderly gentleman

> their outhouse collapse, trapping them in it.

You lost me. Were there multiple people trapped in the seat?

[ASalazarMX]

I don't blame you for the downvotes. The gentleman's gender was clear, there was no logical need to neutralize the following sentence. Even more confusing if you're learning English, its language rules are hard enough without additional ideology rules.

[finnethen]

It was perfectly ordinary English, the ideology exists only through your own lens.

[beretguy]

> It was perfectly ordinary English

Except that it was not

[MiguelX413]

https://oed.com/discover/a-brief-history-of-singular-they

Singular they has existed for hundreds of years, it has nothing to do with ideology.

[mistrial9]

one day ? sounds like nosy rural people justification urban legend, more like it

[whythre]

If an older person doesn’t have a whole lot going on, they often look forward to these sorts of routine daily interactions. Missing one could easily be a red flag.

[mistrial9]

if the older person wants it, yes. On the other hand "welfare check" in lots of areas is a justification to break rules of privacy and it is increasing.

This article starts with an obviously disturbing topic - dying alone as an elderly person. Yet the Japanese are super nosy people with very little privacy in my experience there. Somehow, there are customs that are deeper around privacy that are not obvious.. and perhaps a growing society that is not changing well.

Expectation of privacy, territory and associated manners and legal actions.. are being examined here. The wildly-downvoted comment stands.

[WillAdams]

Driving along the (not gated) driveway of a home, walking around the perimeter of the property (which did not have a privacy fence, the legal terms here are "curtilage", public right of way, and easement) and hearing a cry for help and acting on it are not an invasion of privacy.

All of this was of course, a long time ago, and a further consideration was that the family whose phone was used were on a party line with the neighbor in question and specifically mentioned that a phone call for that neighbor went unanswered the previous evening which added some urgency to the matter.

If anything, Japan has a culture of privacy and respect of individuals which make this originally noted societal problem more likely.