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> But #2 is a good example of "show, don't tell" which is arguably a better writing style.

I think both examples are almost purely "tell", where the person who went to the doctor is telling the listener discrete facts about their doctor. The difference is that the second retelling is awkward, unrealistic, likely a lie, and just generally not how humans describe certain things in English.

In contrast, "showing" the doctor's traits might involve retelling a longer conversation between patient and doctor which indirectly demonstrates how the doctor responds to words or events in a careful way, or--if it were a movie--the camera panning over the doctor's Certificate Of Carefulness on the office wall, etc.