I prefer async chat; less disruptive and less annoying. I discuss more and it is easier to discuss tech stuff that way. In person/speech is a time waster we find; it is just because people are to lazy to think first and write something comprehensive down, so instead they just rattle off their train of thought. After a while most prefer it (been doing this for 30 years); the only ones who don't are sales/marketing (I schedule meetings with them a few times per month) and busy-workers who made it through the interview; we fire them. They won't perform anyway.
Then have a coffee break. You may discover that it is even nicer than saying "yesterday I did ... today I will do ... I am not blocked" to other human beings :-).